Street Take Over

 

People outside Niger state that are not in touch with our sad story; may think that Lolo has done something commendable by visiting IDPs today in Gwada of Shiroro local government.

For your information, this banditry cum terrorism has been ravaging parts of Niger state for seven good years now and Lolo has never found it worthy of his time to come down to Shiroro and sympathize with the victims of incessant attacks till today.

Be also informed that communities in Shiroro and Munya local governments have been tore down. People of Chibani, Galadiman Kogo, Kabulai and many more have abandoned their ancestral homes and their farmlands. These people are currently taking refuge in both Kuta and Gwada Central primary schools.

Lolo's visit is just a political calculation and we already know so. We will continue sensitizing our people how his ugly style of governance have rendered them homeless and become street beggars.

Lolo and his likes are not smart enough to fool us again!

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Seven vagina facts every woman should know

The vagina is one of the most delicate organs in the body of a woman. It refers to a muscular canal covered with nerves and mucus membranes. It attaches the uterus and cervix to the outside of the body, thereby permitting menstruation, intercourse, and childbirth. Aside from these functions, do you know that there are other facts attached to the vagina? Some of them include; 

1. Vaginas get deeper when we’re turned on

Do you know that the mind is one of the most powerful weapons for intercourse? With intercourse on the mind, the vagina opens its doors. After arousal, the upper portion of the vagina gets deeper thus pushing the cervix and uterus slightly deeper into your body to make room for intercourse.

2. Childbirth doesn’t permanently stretch out the vagina but expects some changes

A few days after giving birth vaginally, your vagina and vulva will likely feel bruised and swollen. It is common for your vagina to feel more open than normal on account of the human that recently passed through. But there is no need to worry because the swollenness and openness subside within a few days. So many women bother about this but there is no need for that. 

3. Some people have two vaginas

This might sound weird but this is true. Due to a rare abnormality called uterus didelphys, a very small number of people have two vaginal canals. People with two vaginas can still get pregnant and deliver a baby, but there’s a much higher risk for miscarriage and preterm labour. In case you are in this condition, don't feel bad.

4. And they also change colour

There have been several reports about this but it is normal. When you are in the mood for intercourse, blood gushes to your vulva and vagina. This can cause the colour of your skin in that area to appear darker. But there is no need to be bothered about this because it will go back to its normal shade after intercourse time is over.

5. You can get ‘wet’ without being aroused for intercourse

It is a common belief that when a vagina is wet, the person must want to have intercourse but this is wrong. Vaginas can get wet for a lot of reasons. Hormones cause cervical mucus to be excreted daily. The vulva is packed with many concentrations of sweat glands. Also, vaginas can automatically generate lubrication when they’re touched, even without being aroused. Hence don't always associate being wet with Intercourse alone. 

6. Vaginas are supposed to have a smell

So many feel bad when their vagina has a particular smell but this is wrong. The vagina encompasses a highly specialized lot of bacteria that operate always to keep your vaginal pH healthy and balanced. And like other bacteria, there do have a smell. Hence avoid using perfumes and other soaps on your vagina to make it smell nice. 

7. Not all people with vaginas are women

This might sound off but it's true. Genitalia is not an indicator of gender and it can be harmful to assume so. Many people have a vagina who aren’t women. They may identify as a man or nonbinary. This is a very odd fact you need to know. 

Source

https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/vagina-vulva-facts#19.-Childbirth-doesnt-permanently-stretch-out-the-vagina, -but-expect-some-changes

Everyone should take note of the tips of this article.

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I don't want to be a liability to my man

 

“Most of us are beautiful clueless ladies who all they want is to marry a rich man who has it all”, says Ma'awiya Balkisu

Kanye West was in debt of about $52million and everyone forgot and ignored him. His wife Kim created a game called Kimoji that generated $80 million. She transferred $52 million into his account and cleared up his debts.

Today Kanye worth is about $1.3 billion.

A man needs an intelligent and industrious wife beside him. Not a beautiful clueless Lady who all they want is to marry a rich man who has it all. As a lady develop yourself don't be a liability be an asset to a man.

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Our pride destroyed our marriages

 SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

*A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE* 

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age. My ex husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I

received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my

marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than me.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

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Why Nigerians feel less safe

Insecurity is one of, if not the most glaring and much talked about thing in Nigeria today. Acts of insecurity occur on daily basis throughout the country. Right thinking and sane Nigerians are really concerned about this ugly trend. This post digs into the root causes of insecurity in Nigeria, its effects on the country and proffers/suggests ways out of this nightmare.

The causes amongst so many include fundamentally:

• Illiteracy

• Unemployment/joblessness

• Poor leadership

• Porous nature of our boarders

• Proliferation of arms

• Non-compliance with the rule of law.

The effects are also here:

• Underdevelopment

• Poverty

• Hunger

• Insurgency

• Militancy

• Youth restiveness

• Kidnapping

• Armed robbery

• Fear

• Drug abuse

• Political thuggery etc.

As part of the way out of this, this post suggests that ‘career’ (technical) education be emphasized rather than the ‘degree’ (non-technical) education. Civics as a subject should be restored in the primary school curriculum; the country be restructured as demanded by most of the populace, community policing introduced and supported; rule of law and quality leadership firmly established and spirit of nationalism enshrined in the minds of the citizenry.

WHAT IS YOUR OWN VIEW AND WAY OUT….?

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The simple rules they use to scam us

For those of you who are interested in Nigerian politics, the rule is simple.

Never hit the big guys, focus on the little people, they are your mugu. They are so powerful but they don’t know it. And that’s why it is so easy to scam them, like what the politicians has done in the last 48 years.

As the trillions of naira is budgeted for the 180 million people, your job as a politician is to positioned yourself between the budget and the 180 million people who need it. It’s simple, just be on the compete from the budget to your interest group and to your bedroom.

But Nigerians only talk, their anger only extinguishes in the bear parlors and the news papers desk.

Your try and steal a loaf of bread out of anger they will leach you. But still, lot’s loots billions from the national treasury and they will crown you with chieftaincy tittles of the red carpets.

If there ever riot it only lead to killing each other, never rise against the politicians.

NOTE: I’m not telling you to be like them, I’m telling you to be different from them.

Yeah…! Keep thinking that if this writer also have the opportunity they have, he will also do the same. But the truth need to be told, we should know who they are…!

You may not like me, but you can’t ignore me.

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Poverty is the parent of revolution and crime

Poverty has become the parent of revolutions and crimes

Today in my country (Nigeria), politics have become an investment where the rich invest in to make profit while the poor lives in poverty and starvation not minding what kind of developments will they bring to their mother-land.

My people do you know that unemployment, corruption, non-diversification of the economy, income inequality, laziness, and a poor education system are some of the key factors contributing to poverty in Nigeria?

• What are you doing about these factors?
• What a way forward do you ever think for these factors? 
• Why are we still revolving around these same factors for many years and nothing has been done about it.
• Do you know that you are dying slowly as these factors are killing your mother-land slowly?
• Have you ever wakeup in the morning and thought of how to save your country?
• Do you know that there people who cannot even afford one-square meal for their families?
• Do you see how marketers are inflicting the prices of commodities as they wished living the poor to suffer it? 

Though you are not to blamed because we the masses also sold our right at the expensed of N50 to elect you into offices, but they are some who voted you heartedly without collecting a penny from you hoping you may fulfill their dreams. Why do you let their hopes down?

Sometimes I do feel as if I maybe opportune to rule this country for just five months I would ask God to use me to make at least %45 positive impact to my mother-land. I believe with DEVOTION everything can be change.

Fear the day you will be question for your own deed by your creator.

Fear the day, the mother of revolutions and crimes will triggered the mind of her children to come after you.

You know the key solutions to all these factors causing downfall to our noble mother-land (Nigeria).

I leave it unto you, SOLVE IT to avoid temptation.

Let me tell you, “The first step toward avoiding temptation, is recognizing our human tendency to be tempted by our own fleshly desires”.

Remember, temptation is a given, so don’t be surprise by it. Rather, expect to be tempted. Be prepared for it……

Those who flee temptation generally leave a forwarding address……

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The 10 Understated Qualities of a Truly Beautiful Nupe Woman

Nupe woman

There is no doubt that there is great value assigned to external beauty. For some how they look physically is simply an expression and celebration of their internal beauty, but often those who are physically attractive are emotionally unattractive. To be beautiful inside and out, you must possess more than a pretty shell.

1. Elegance: Elegance is that dignified grace about your appearance, movement, personal style or behavior. To be elegant is to be strong and assured in who you are and to move gently within that energy.

When you possess elegance you are graceful even amidst a challenge. You are able to handle yourself in a noble and ethical manner. You hold good posture, your energy has a mystery, softness, strength and cleverness to it. You are vulnerable yet self-assured.

Elegance is the undeniable quality of the depth of your personal wisdom.

2. Kindness: The kindness of your spirit, how you treat, think about, and speak to others comes from a genuine and sensitive place. You are kind, even to those whom you do not care for. You are aware that you can love someone even if you do not like them.

Being kind may be perceived as weakness or vulnerability by others, but you know that kindness is one of your strongest influences. If you can’t say something nice, you have the control to remain quiet.

There is no other human quality that will get you further in life than kindness.

3. Composure: Composure is the beauty of self-control. Life is always going to bring its challenges. Without a sense of composure it is easy to allow conflictual situations and relationships to unnerve you, but when you have composure you understand the concept of less equals more.

The less you react, defend, explain, become fearful or controlling the more command you have over a situation. Having composure allows you to stand tall with grace in the face of loss or challenge and not to be overly boastful when it comes to your success.

Composure allows you maintain a certain stillness in the face of life’s changes.

4. Courage: Be willing to dare greatly in your life. It takes courage to love fully, to change yourself when necessary, to feel deeply, to leave love when it’s scary and to chase your dreams with passion and an unwavering tenacity.

You are aware that to become courageous you must do courageous things. You also know it is not the loudness of your mouth but the depth of your character, to keep going no matter your circumstances, which makes you thrive.

5. Confident: When you are self-loving you naturally possess a quiet confidence. Your self-awareness, dedication to self-development and personal growth provide you the knowledge to succeed at nearly anything you seek.

Because of your life experiences and inner depth, you can be certain positive things will happen in your life because you depend upon yourself to have the information and willingness to do the work necessary to get to your result.

6. Deliberate: You are clear and persistent about who you are, where you are headed in life and what you want from your relationships to be happy. In being deliberate people know where they stand with you. You get what you want in life because you are clear in saying what you want. 

You use each challenge life brings to positively refine yourself. This refinement keeps your life clean of negativity. Being deliberate keeps you pointed in the direction of your dreams, connected to your true loves and to living genuinely as who you are.

 In being deliberate your life is not set up on pretenses. Who you are does not change from person to person or situation to situation.

7. Intelligent: Intelligence is about knowledge, but even more so about emotions. In being aware of your emotional patterns you are endowed with the flexibility to handle challenge and change, allowing you to unlock smart solutions to your problems.

With a well-rounded intelligence you carry yourself in a stately and unafraid manner. You are secure knowing there are a multitude of choices available in life, so there is no need to be reactive. In being emotionally intelligent you have the ability to keep your eyes on the bigger picture turning obstacles into opportunities.

8. Humble: Life isn’t all about you, in fact, you prefer to celebrate the accomplishments of others as much as your own. You are proud of who you are but have no need to add histrionics to your success. Most of the time you prefer being in the background, working hard and allowing your success speak for itself.

You are sensitive and want the best for everyone. You do not see yourself above others as you are secure enough in yourself that the trap of comparison doesn’t interest you. You enjoy your life for what it is and do not feel entitled to more without the commensurate work to back it up.

9. Honest: People gravitate towards what is real. You are simple, upfront, gentle, but direct in the ‘being’ of who you are. You are content to live life patiently and know how to wait well. For you life is about being authentic and following your heart and nothing else.

 You are someone others can depend upon as you have no ulterior motives. You are relationship oriented not agenda oriented. You believe the truth is the only path to success and deep intimacy. You do not change who you are based on who you are with. You are who you are and your priority in life is to feel happy and satisfied.

10. Loving: There is nothing more appealing to others than to be in the presence of a loving person. When you love yourself you have endless love to give. For you love is a verb and it is expresses itself through loving kindness, touch, your smile and sense of inner joy and vitality.

You are warm towards others and kind to yourself. There is nothing you wouldn’t do to help and this loving approach is taken into every area of your life from career to parenting. Further, you apply love as a form of discipline and setting boundaries when necessary.

There are times when the only way another can learn and grow is for you to either have to withdrawal your love, or to set boundaries around it, in an effort to protect your generous nature. You know that in order for you to remain loving you must protect your heart and put yourself first in negative situations.

Through life’s experiences you have come to accept that some people can stay in your heart, but not in your life.

To be truly beautiful, it is the understated qualities of beauty which are sustaining. To possess any one of them will increase the experience of your beauty exponentially. Who you are internally is the marker of your influence on the world.

Sherapy Advice: Let the kindness of your character say more about you than what you see in the mirror.

A nupe woman possess all this characters, if you doubt me ask those whom there wifes are nupe women....!

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INSPIRATION: Fear

Fear can hold you as a prisoner, hope can set you free.
The spirit of future is HOPE.
By Shehu Yahaya Abdullahi

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INSPIRATIONAL MOTIVATIONAL QUOTES ABOUT SUCCESS AND LIFE

Inspirational quotes and motivational sayings have an amazing ability to change the way we feel about life. This is why I find them so interesting and crucial on our paths to success.

So what’s their secret?

You see, the way you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible for you, determines everything that happens to you.

When you change the quality of your thinking, you change the quality of your life, sometimes instantly. Just as positive words can make someone smile or a well-timed humorous quote can make someone laugh, our thoughts react to the world in real-time.

You have complete control over only one thing in the universe — your thinking – and that’s where motivational quotes come in!

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Science Fiction Quarterly

Science Fiction Quarterly was an American pulp science fiction magazine that was published from 1940 to 1943 and again from 1951 to 1958. Charles Hornig served as editor for the first two issues; Robert A. W. Lowndes edited the remainder. Science Fiction Quarterly was launched by publisher Louis Silberkleit during a boom in science fiction magazines at the end of the 1930s. Silberkleit launched two other science fiction titles (Science Fiction and Future Fiction) at about the same time: all three ceased publication before the end of World War II, falling prey to slow sales and paper shortages. In 1950 and 1951, as the market improved, Silberkleit relaunched Future Fiction and Science Fiction Quarterly. By the time Science Fiction Quarterly ceased publication in 1958, it was the last surviving science fiction pulp.

Science Fiction Quarterly's policy was to reprint a novel in each issue as the lead story, and Silberkleit was able to obtain reprint rights to two early science fiction novels and several of Ray Cummings' books. Both Hornig and Lowndes were given minuscule budgets, and Hornig in particular had trouble finding good material to print. Lowndes did somewhat better, as he was able to call on his friends in the Futurians, a group of aspiring writers that included Isaac Asimov, James Blish, and Donald Wollheim. The second incarnation of the magazine also had a policy of running a lead novel, though in practice the lead stories were often well short of novel length. Among the better-known stories published by the magazine were "Second Dawn", by Arthur C. Clarke; "The Last Question", by Isaac Asimov; and "Common Time", by James Blish.

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